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Stealth Combat

It’s hard to fight what you can’t see.

I remember reading something once about how to fight your enemy. It may have been The Art of War but I can’t remember. Essentially, you distance yourself from your enemy completely leaving him to wonder what’s going on. When confronted, instead of giving them an answer for your standoffish behaviour, you dance, bob and weave yourself around them til they are dizzy and even more confused.

Have you ever distanced yourself from a man or woman that you really weren’t interested in? You don’t have to say or do much, but they’ll begin to sense, almost immediately, that something isn’t quite right.

And it will drive them crazy.

A reader once told me that blacks don’t have to do anything to white people to defeat them. Just focus on bettering ourselves and loving each other. Whatever reality we create for ourselves, they will automatically be affected by it because they cannot live without our input, our ideas, our creativity and our energy.

I know for a fact that this is true.

White readers contact me all the time, begging for dialogue, asking me to respond to them, trying to show me that they’re “not like the rest” so please give them a chance. When I travel, I ignore them. Never make eye contact, never smile at them and act as if they do not exist.

Words cannot describe how many of them go out of their way to get my attention. And the more they seek it, the more they are ignored. Especially white males who cannot fathom why a black woman would not want them with all their money, land, classic cars and nice jobs.

Whites have a CODE:

 

Never tell on other whites when they are practicing racism.

Act like you don’t see or know what’s going on.

Pretend that the victim of racism is “just imagining things.”

Make light of ALL situations involving injustice unless it concerns them DIRECTLY

Simply turn their backs and go on with life

 

This CODE is the life force behind white supremacy and I’m telling you that it will never end.

EVER.

 

Here’s where we get caught up in the mess.

 

Black DO NOT practice a code of our own in which we navigate ourselves in their racist society. We cannot expect the schoolyard bully to come to his senses and recognize the error of his ways. This takes some Spiritual awareness and the white collective has demonstrated they have none. Til this day, they are blaming their quickly diminishing demographic on Black Lives Matter, immigration and coloured folks taking their jobs.  This is like a dying squirrel population blaming the increasing moose population for their extinction. Never once has Divine Karma entered their minds. So we must be the driving force for our own change.

 

I’m going to list a few codes that we can ALL do that are apart of Stealth Combat and you, Black Family, must come up with the rest.

Practice them daily. It will take much work and discipline but if you wish to fight, it must be done along with our meditation sessions. Our ancestors are here to help us but we must also help ourselves.

And do not worry that they’ll read this. It’s non-violent and there’s nothing that they can document to PROVE anything.

 

  1. Stop smiling with them. I know that this sounds comical but a serious faced black person causes whites much anxiety.
  2. Do not attend any functions with them unless it is work related and mandatory, like an office luncheon. A white man that I knew from work invited me over to his farm for beers and a barbecue. I told him with a straight face but a POLITE tone ( remember to avoid confrontation ) that I couldn’t attend. His face fell into China.
  3. Stop complementing them. ON EVERYTHING. ESPECIALLY WHITE FEMALES. I never knew how much of their self esteem is reliant on our feedback til I observed just how fragile they are when it comes to us telling them how special, how cute, how pretty, how clever, how awesome they are. Refrain from giving them positive feedback and watch them slowly self destruct.

 

What others can you think of?

 

Did you notice that sex with them didn’t make my short list? Why?

If you are still sleeping with your enemy despite ALL that they do and the fact that your lover ISN’T fighting for you, you deserve anything you get.

 

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