Observations of an Invisible Woman

Think Twice Before You Give Birth


i was sent this so many times in the past few days, I lost count.

Ladies, please think twice before you allow your future children to come into this world unprepared and unprotected.

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12 thoughts on “Think Twice Before You Give Birth

  1. Absolutely shameful!!

  2. @ madamesiamese

    I hope we’re paying attention.

  3. QUEEN OF ZION! on said:

    Am sorry but this brought me in tears.Black man what’s become of you? Reminds me of my own father who never stood up for me.

  4. @ Queen

    A lot of women were deeply hurt watching this. They keep asking, “What if that was my daughter?”

    Maybe we’ll begin to get the message and stop making certain decisions that will set us back for generations.

  5. Alberto Macstaire on said:

    Does any of you know what is or understands the fallacy of confirmation bias ????

    Confirmation bias:

    “Confirmation bias is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms or supports one’s prior beliefs or values. It is an important type of cognitive bias that has a significant effect on the proper functioning of society by distorting evidence-based decision-making.”

    Here, a video of an idiotic black men allowing his daughter to fend for herself, means all black men are idiotic and all black daughters are in trouble?

    By this logic, all the black women prostituting their daughters and themselves, the white men molesting their children, or the white women sleeping with dogs, means everyone is doing it???

    Come on, at least post with sense.

    What about the countless accounts of black men dying and protecting their children??? Black man using his body to shield his girlfriend from bullets??

    This is some new low. We need black women who have loving fathers, brothers, husbands, sons, etc, to stand up and start counteracting these poisonous narratives by these fatherless, bitter, self-hating and barren black women.

    Negress, your blogs are still there with you being threatened by white men. You were their target when chimpout and stormfront was around. I believe you are not who you say you are. I believe your blog was taken over by one of them or you were recruited as an agent, aka, Micele Wallace.

    You know Micele Wallace and Elaine Brown was recruited by the CIA and FBI to destroy the black family. Elaine Brown was recruited to destroy the black panther party, while Gloria Steinem, a CIA agent, wrote a hit piece on black men under the feminist guise and added Micele Wallace’s name to it. When the truth was exposed it drove Micele Wallace mad and into hiding.

  6. The best thing to do is not have any sexual contact and/or potentially any other contact with them at all. This in turn will:

    1. Alleviate unplanned pregnancies because then children will not have the burden of being born to parents who may not be ready (mentally, physically, financially, etc.) to raise a child. Children deserve NOT to be born & raised into a dysfunctional environment.

    2. There will be no abortions.

    3. There will be no potential for sexually transmitted diseases (community peen is a no-no).

    4. No emotional or physical “entanglements”.

    5. No building any men up; build yourself up first (along with your family if you are responsible for other dependents, i.e. a single parent, etc.).

    6. No bums living with you at all.

    7. Will leave you with a peace of mind. Yourself, your children, and/or any other dependents you are responsible for deserve to live in a peaceful environment.

    Black women be wise in who you associate with; who you allow into your circle; vet the people you bring around yourself & potentially your family; & be conscience in who you allow to have access to your womb.


  7. Marsha Collier on said:

    Please ban Alberto. He only seeks to gaslght and deflect.

  8. @ Marsha

    Alberto is waking up more black women every time he opens his mouth. That’s priceless.

  9. @ dlboydx

    Well said.

    Many black women have told me privately that since they woke up to what BM are really about, they’ve gotten IUD’s or have become celibate. One woman confided in me that she’s “done with all men.”

    Another black woman got her tubes tied.

    There is an awakening going on and every time they disrespect us, more and more will awaken and begin to make silent moves.

  10. Alberto Macstaire on said:

    @Marsha Collier

    Of course. Banned me for making sense??? It is funny when Negress got negative all you vagabonds are popping up. Where were you when she had her positive vibration posts….when she was fighting the white supremacists from Chimpout and Stormfront? Where were all of you when she was being threatened by these white folks??

    All of sudden, she starts speaking ill of black men and here you all are in all your glory. Y’all will eat and drink any poison as long as it says “to destroy black men”.

    I wish you, Marsha, to debate me; point out where i “deflect and gaslight”, and I will stand corrected. Or, maybe you are not really certain of the words you use? It is easier to accuse someone rather than point out evidence of the crime.

    If this is the real Negress from back in the days, this probably her wisdom and intuition being used to draw folks like you out the wood work, but something tells me it isn’t.

    Anyone, I care not who you are, who spews one sided narrative, about either black men or black women, is not about unity. These types are about division and dysfunction. This is because no one is perfect and no one is without some fault of his/her own.

  11. @ everyone

    Please do not engage with Alberto. I’m using his comments to make a much needed point.

    Thank you!

  12. Alberto Macstaire on said:


    I leave you with one of your former post. You should read it.


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