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Stockholm Syndrome: The Negro Madness Disease

“Out of the blackest part of my soul, across the zebra striping of my mind, surges this desire to be suddenly white. I wish to be acknowledged not as black but as white…who but a white woman can do this for me? By loving me she proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man…I marry white culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.”

—Franz Fanon, Black Skin, White Masks

Stockholm syndrome refers to a group of psychological symptoms that occur in some persons in a captive or hostage situation. It has received considerable media publicity in recent years because it has been used to explain the behavior of such well-known kidnapping victims as Patty Hearst (1974) and Elizabeth Smart (2002).

The term takes its name from a bank robbery in Stockholm, Sweden, in August 1973. The robber took four employees of the bank (three women and one man) into the vault with him and kept them hostage for 131 hours. After the employees were finally released, they appeared to have formed a paradoxical emotional bond with their captor; they told reporters that they saw the police as their enemy rather than the bank robber, and that they had positive feelings toward the criminal.

The syndrome was first named by Nils Bejerot (1921–1988), a medical professor who specialized in addiction research and served as a psychiatric consultant to the Swedish police during the standoff at the bank. Stockholm syndrome is also known as Survival Identification Syndrome. {source: stockholm syndrome.com}

Most blacks involved in exclusively white relationships are suffering from Stockholm Syndrome.

It has been my estimation that ALL black people living in the known universe, especially those that have daily contact with Europeans, are insane…myself included.
Seem harsh?
Not really. In order to survive in this oppressive and maddennig white-dominated society where you are constantly being told you are:
1. Worthless
2. Ugly
3. Lazy
4. No-good
5. Disease-ridden
6. A scourge to all society
It is imperative to dissociate ones mind from the constant abuse and develop “coping mechanisms.” My method happens to be isolation. I simply do not communicate with whites anymore on ANY level unless absolutely necessary. I can literally pick up on their evil and aggression and somehow, without knowing it, I become ill. I feel physically sick, weakened and mentally exhausted. I first realized this in school being surrounded by hordes of white women constantly staring at me, watching me…studying me. I felt their colour arousal for me and it made me uncomfortable.
Now I’ve become so proficient at sizing them up, all it takes is a quick glance into their empty, doll-like eyes and I know to keep far, far away.
For other blacks who cannot isolate themselves depression, drug-abuse/ use, alcoholism/sex/ food /shopping abuse and suicide/homicide are common symptoms. And for the most damaged, it’s Stockholm Syndrome.
How to defeat this, you ask?
Like most illnesses, the first step is admitting that you have a problem.
Then second step is admitting what the problem is:
White supremacy.
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86 thoughts on “Stockholm Syndrome: The Negro Madness Disease

  1. Great piece! I used to be attracted to white males because I went to an all-white school for 8 years. I have to say that hearing Pam talk about the “Interracial Con Game” on The C.O.W.S. stopped that because I was afraid to admit the fact that Whiteness was very attractive to me despite its oppressiveness. My parents came to America from the Caribbean in order to have a better life, and White people were better off, so their lifestyle was something I was taught to strive for. I even have college professors who speak about racial issues on campus but have white partners. So it’s evident that Stockholm Syndrome affects many of us that either do or do not have sex with whites. Do you think that Stockholm Syndrome would be so bad if Black men and women were seen as physically attractive on a large scale?

  2. Ms. J

    Blacks are seen as physically attractive on a large scale. That is why we are the most copied race on the planet. Of course they lie and tell us the opposite to confuse us and lead us to further destruction but the proof is EVERYWHERE.

    Whiteness is a disease.

    And all people who classify as non-white are infected in one way or another.

  3. We are ALL, regardless of race, taught to believe that “White is right” in a White supremacist society. However, we are all infected by it on different levels. Some POC believe that getting a good job, living in a good (i.e. White) neighborhood, going to school with Whites, dating/marrying/having children with Whites, socializing with Whites means acceptance into the White world. You might be accepted to a certain extent, but in the end, they will let you know that you are not one of them. Ask OJ.

    Out of curiosity, why do you have a picture of Bryant Gumbel on there?

  4. @ Mickey

    Bryant gumbel has been white identified since birth. And he’s been in one tragic relationship after another.

  5. I was and possibly still am affected by this. I don’t want to admit by how much, for fear of embarrassment. This is so deeply rooted, so firmly planted in us as a people that to detach from it can be quite painful. I say this because it has been for me. It’s almost surreal how clearly you can see once you stop striving to assimilate, align and admire with the dominant culture.

    Good post.

  6. @Ms. J

    RBC(Racial Bridge Concept)

    Bryant Gumbel is an example of a so-called blackman who wanted a bridge to the other side, and he achieved that via his white wife. His entire being is built around whiteness, therefore, his world view will reflect that. Black men and women get involved in IR relationships for different reasons. For blackmen, it’s about power…having sexual access to the women of another race. In the case of blackwomen, it’s about ego…non-black males lusting after their african asthetics. As for beauty, black people are the most desired racial group on the planet. The post-colonial racial makeup of the planet is proof of that. Just Google black sexuality on your cmputer, and you will have access to thousands of pages and websites dedicated to sex between black people and inter-racial sex. We’ve won the beauty and sexuality battle, we need not waste time debating a settled issue. Black Sexuality is controversial because it’s the obsession of all human beings, regardless of race. There are 3 types of people on this planet…Black, Half-Black, and Neither. The third category is the problem. They’re not black by birth, which is the genesis of RBC. If we can’t be black, the only viable option is sexual relations with black people. In order for them to achieve this goal, black women and men must be brainwashed to hate themselves and each other. In the minds of non-blacks, blacks are viewed as sexual beings, not full human beings. We often wonder why blacks can be lusted after by certain groups, yet, are still treated as secondary in said society. A racist whiteman who has sex with blackwomen and vice-versa…sex is colorblind. Blackmen do the same ish…don’t like whitemen all that much, but, he likes to f**k whitewomen in like fashion…Contradiction! Inter-racial is not about racial harmony, it’s never been about that. Black folk fall victim to The Swirl based on their own selfish needs and wants. A blackwoman wants a rich man, so, she jumps into bed with a rich whiteman…Selfish Want! A blackman wants to be respected by whitemen, so, he jumps into bed with a white female…Selfish Want! Neither act is about improving race relations between both races. A lot of us are just now understanding the racial and sexual dynamics of Inter-racial via the black race. (Black Again) is another concept that is instructive in relation to this issue…In the beginning, all humans were black. As such, all of those that are not black today yearn to be “Black Again.” Ms. J, all of this ish is easy to decode. If i can break it down for others to understand, all of us can. Blackness is the ultimate aim and objective…Universal Truth!

    Tyrone

  7. @Mickey

    Black people are still detoxing from 500 plus years of brainwashing by whites. All of us don’t reach “Liberation” at the same time and same way. Blacks who fall victim to the bs pay a heavy price. OJ was married to a blackwoman that truly loved him, yet, it wasn’t enuf. Now, he’s spending his golden years behind bars because he killed a whitewoman and her male friend. All because he wanted to be liked by whitemen, thinking that would gain him access to the “White Boys Club.” Self-Hating blackmen are not liked and respected by no one…men of other races laugh at them. The same group of men would love to be black themselves, which is why they can’t understand so-called blackmen like OJ and Terrence Howard among others. “Ya’ll have the finest women on the planet, yet, chase after whitewomen that are less attractive…What whitemen say behind closed doors.”

    Ty

  8. Another blaktastic post. I never looked at Stockholm Syndrome in the way that u laid out here. Respect

  9. Wow it was about time that you did this post. It’s nothing but the truth. We are a conquered peoples. Everything, from the way we dress, eat, live, speak. When you think about it, black women donning all those weaves and contraptions,I’ve wondered whether it’s as simple as them wanting to look prettier. That’s what they say, but when you ask them why do you view long straight, silky hair as prettier? I think it may be a symptom of stockholm syndrome, wanting to identify with your oppressor. To whites, this current system, where many people adopt their way of life, is perfectly natural and anyone who doesn’t conform is a freak. But ask them to imagine a world in which they speak Igbo, fang, swahili, are taught by African teachers in African institutions who constantly tell them that Africans invented everything and never mention what their people did, only have access to African foods, all radios play African music, Africans make all the important decisions affecting where they can live, work, access to healthcare etc… I think that if they were to wake up tomorrow and find themselves in such a world, most would either go mad or commit suicide. The sad part is this doesn’t happen only in America. I cannot name a single mostly black nation in which the people have a high standard of life. I don’t subscribe to the white mindset that views blacks as lesser than everyone. Africa is not the only poor continent on Earth. However I do have one question: how have we allowed ourselves to get and stay in this mess for so long? Most people on this planet are oppressed, suffering and poor, yet we Africans are the most dehumanized, everywhere we go. No honest person can deny that whites are monsters and have created this mess, but at some point we look inward and identify our flaws, because those flaws play a part in enabling this ish to continue.

  10. His first wife was black–then he dumped her for a snowflake. He never went back to black women ever again. But you’re correct though. Most of these black celebs are white identified in one way or another.

  11. Tiger Woods,OJ Simpson,Charles Barkley,Bryant Gumbel,Wayne Brady,Cuba Gooding,Taye Diggs etc. They’re all house negroes in my opinion. They have been totally brainwashed by the white power structure.
    Like Malcolm X said:

    To understand this, you have to go back to what [the] young brother here referred to as the house Negro and the field Negro — back during slavery. There was two kinds of slaves. There was the house Negro and the field Negro. The house Negroes – they lived in the house with master, they dressed pretty good, they ate good ’cause they ate his food — what he left. They lived in the attic or the basement, but still they lived near the master; and they loved their master more than the master loved himself. They would give their life to save the master’s house quicker than the master would. The house Negro, if the master said, “We got a good house here,” the house Negro would say, “Yeah, we got a good house here.” Whenever the master said “we,” he said “we.” That’s how you can tell a house Negro.

    If the master’s house caught on fire, the house Negro would fight harder to put the blaze out than the master would. If the master got sick, the house Negro would say, “What’s the matter, boss, we sick?” We sick! He identified himself with his master more than his master identified with himself. And if you came to the house Negro and said, “Let’s run away, let’s escape, let’s separate,” the house Negro would look at you and say, “Man, you crazy. What you mean, separate? Where is there a better house than this? Where can I wear better clothes than this? Where can I eat better food than this?” That was that house Negro. In those days he was called a “house nigger.” And that’s what we call him today, because we’ve still got some house niggers running around here.

    This modern house Negro loves his master. He wants to live near him. He’ll pay three times as much as the house is worth just to live near his master, and then brag about “I’m the only Negro out here.” “I’m the only one on my job.” “I’m the only one in this school.” You’re nothing but a house Negro. And if someone comes to you right now and says, “Let’s separate,” you say the same thing that the house Negro said on the plantation. “What you mean, separate? From America? This good white man? Where you going to get a better job than you get here?” I mean, this is what you say. “I ain’t left nothing in Africa,” that’s what you say. Why, you left your mind in Africa.

    On that same plantation, there was the field Negro. The field Negro — those were the masses. There were always more Negroes in the field than there was Negroes in the house. The Negro in the field caught hell. He ate leftovers. In the house they ate high up on the hog. The Negro in the field didn’t get nothing but what was left of the insides of the hog. They call ‘em “chitt’lings” nowadays. In those days they called them what they were: guts. That’s what you were — a gut-eater. And some of you all still gut-eaters.

    *The field Negro was beaten from morning to night. He lived in a shack, in a hut; He wore old, castoff clothes. He hated his master. I say he hated his master. He was intelligent. That house Negro loved his master. But that field Negro — remember, they were in the majority, and they hated the master. When the house caught on fire, he didn’t try and put it out; that field Negro prayed for a wind, for a breeze. When the master got sick, the field Negro prayed that he’d die. If someone come [sic] to the field Negro and said, “Let’s separate, let’s run,” he didn’t say “Where we going?” He’d say, “Any place is better than here.” You’ve got field Negroes in America today. I’m a field Negro. The masses are the field Negroes. When they see this man’s house on fire, you don’t hear these little Negroes talking about “our government is in trouble.” They say, “The government is in trouble.” Imagine a Negro: “Our government”! I even heard one say “our astronauts.” They won’t even let him near the plant — and “our astronauts”! “Our Navy” — that’s a Negro that’s out of his mind. That’s a Negro that’s out of his mind.

    Just as the slavemaster of that day used Tom, the house Negro, to keep the field Negroes in check, the same old slavemaster today has Negroes who are nothing but modern Uncle Toms, 20th century Uncle Toms, to keep you and me in check, keep us under control, keep us passive and peaceful and nonviolent. That’s Tom making you nonviolent. It’s like when you go to the dentist, and the man’s going to take your tooth. You’re going to fight him when he starts pulling. So he squirts some stuff in your jaw called novocaine, to make you think they’re not doing anything to you. So you sit there and ’cause you’ve got all of that novocaine in your jaw, you suffer peacefully. Blood running all down your jaw, and you don’t know what’s happening. ‘Cause someone has taught you to suffer — peacefully.”

  12. Marius, I often think that we are so far removed from who and what we naturally are by being assimilated into white (dominant) culture that when the privilege of knowing ourselves – our history, both ancient & modern, our true culture, etc. – presents itself, many of us turn away in disgust. I’ve seen this happen. We balk at our roots, whether it’s our literal kinky roots or our ancestral roots.
    We’re too in love with white culture; it’s our norm, our comfort zone.

  13. Moorbey

    Thank you. No wonder why we are so self destructive. We are following the teachings of the most destructive beings on earth.

  14. Marius

    Whiteness is an abomination of nature. Everything on earth is derived of carbon and serves a purpose. Parasites are white. Thusly, they feed off the host in order to survive.

    These things are NOT coincidental.

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  16. lol…I agree.

  17. The black person who is comfortable in their beauty and culture is indeed very powerful. One reason I really admire the President is because he “embraces” his father’s half. He embraces black people and on the census it is said he identifies himself as “black”, not “biracial”, but BLACK. He is secure in who and what he is. This sends a powerful statement to millions of black people in the U.S. who are struggling with their “self identity” in a country (and let’s be honest a “World” as well) that tells them they are inferior.

    Inferior in Beauty, Inferior in Intellect, Inferior in Work Ethic, Inferior in Culture.. It’s ALL LIES.

  18. This blog is really interesting. I get what you mean about insanity, but honestly I think whites are the insane ones, not blacks. We are merely reacting naturally to a crisis that has been going on for centuries. By the way, when you say blacks are insane,did you not include other non whites because they have it better than us, although they are also victims of white supremacy?

  19. Lamar

    Blacks are insane because we identify with the most insane creatures on earth: Caucasians.

    Other non-whites appear to have it “better” because they hide behind us. We take the brunt of everything and they are happier because of it.

    That doesn’t mean that they do not experience racism…because they do. What it does mean is they are not on the same level of hatred as we are globally. As for their level of insanity? I do not know. I cannot speak for :

    Asians of all countries
    Spanish speaking Africans
    Natives/ Aboriginals

    Only they can tell you how it feels to be them.

  20. Yes, Sister!

    I’m freezing outside trying to reach us yet it’s difficult. Still, no Whites in my diet. I’m one of the few happy Africans. :)

  21. ALCHEMIST on said:

    @marius

    About weaves

    Women are socialized to seek affirmation outside of themselves. When I taught in the public schools the scene on the playgrounds was the same at every elementary school. One saw 5 to 10 black boys chasing 2 to 3 paper bag test passible (light skin, long hair) little girls around the school yard. These little boys then grow up to become adult black males that make comments on blog posts about how they just can’t figure out why those crazy black women wear weaves and use bleaching cream. When the men of your race affirm the beauty of every race of women on the planet except your own it’s easy to understand why weaves are worn.

  22. mary burrell on said:

    Bryant Gumbel and Taye Diggs have always infuriated me.

  23. blackmystory on said:

    “I can literally pick up on their evil and aggression and somehow, without knowing it, I become ill. I feel physically sick, weakened and mentally exhausted.”
    ————————————–
    There is such a thing called energy vampires. They are not only Yurugu’s children, but they certainly embody this phenomenon of invading your personal space and sucking the very life (energy) out of you.

    At this stage in my life, i still cannot wrap my head around knee-grows wanting to ride miss daisy or being a ghetto gagger. I was born in a time and in a place where Pride in Africa and being African was exemplified by the Honorable Marcus Garvey and the Rasta movement. I grow up around that. I had an older brother who not only was a Rasta, but kept me in check when I immigrated to a foreign land. So it was disheartening to see Rasta’s using this “one love” for some bullshit excuse to get with Caucasian. Even more so my fellow Islanders dissing each other on the dark matter level and espousing the very same thing Fanon mentioned. I was so determined to hold my ground that for years I wouldn’t deliberately LOOK at a female lighter than me, yet watch as those darker than me would sell out their dignity shamelessly. I don’t get me talking about those simp knee-grows, who feel he just had to dog out African woman in front of me, thus risking getting dumped on to a subway track…for real!

    To this day i shake my head sadly when cats who know me for more than 20 years are still in disbelief when I tell them I have never been with a Caucasian woman. Why? I value my body and my sexual energy, and I wouldn’t waste it recklessly.

    The Stockholm syndrome analogy is apt and so is the mental health analogy. Just between you and I queen, I don’t have to see or know you personally to know that you are in the process of self healing. During this process, you identify what ails you and then correctly remove yourself from that trigger, though some may not overstand, I definitely got your back on this separation thing. On fortunately I am not sure which is worse. Coming through the Ma’afa and hearing all the ills Americanism did and continues to do, yet engage in the madness of ethnic transference, or coming from a prisoner of war colony to a overwhelmingly Caucasian country, where the lies of multiculturalism slaps us daily in the face, yet we keep finding more cheeks to give them.

    The Negro Madness Disease indeed!

  24. shingling on said:

    Again, black men (the black women don’t care) HATE when people point out the fact that they are COLOR STRUCK. That’s all it boils down too.

    I have seen black men chase light skinned women who look like Mooses in the face over drop dead attractive darker skinned females. If this isn’t “self hatred” and a negro being “color struck” what is?

    But again, as long as they spread their seed our numbers in this country will increase. Being a mixed breed with black blood one is still considered “black” and will sympathize with the cause and the plight of black people.

  25. shingling on said:

    This is true blackstory. There are people out there who can and will (if you let them) drain your positive energy. I almost became a recluse because I simply won’t stand for it. I have never understood people who hang with people who bring constant drama into thier lives..over and over and over..It basically shows they have low self esteem. Who has time for all of that?

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  27. shingling on said:

    There is an old saying I once heard a guy say which is this: When white men go into a community of different people they say “How can I make money off of these people”. Same for a hispanic man and an asian man. But when a black man goes into a community of different people, his first thought is not “how can I make money off these people” but “how can I sleep with their women”..LOL

    The truth hurts doesn’t it fellas…

  28. wow! verrrrrry interesting!

  29. testify!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  30. @blackmystory

    I am in the long process of healing and it’s hard. Real hard.I am strong at times, weak at times but my process of healing is bringing me closer to Jah.

    When I realized that we are indeed mad, I was astonished! But that realization made me all the more aware of my enemy and what must be done.

  31. blackmystory on said:

    Yo back up off of that mess! We’all males and females suffer from that ill. The males have been HEARING it for the longest while because that is the narrative, but the females not only engage in it, but his storically have benefited from it MORE than the males. Neither ends up better off, because poison is poison. That’s why the queen says WE ALL are MAD!

  32. blackmystory on said:

    Like the females don’t want to fuck them some Caucasian men? Ever heard of ghetto gaggers? Ever been on online dating sites? Ever read some of these entertainment magazines? Check this ill shit

    http://tommysotomayor.com/?p=12251 and http://tommysotomayor.com/?p=12265

    We are all fucked and in need of either therapy or electric shock.

  33. blackmystory on said:

    Try not to do it by yourself. call on a friend, who will support you sister without encroaching on your growth. That’s what the African village is for. Stay blessed!

  34. shingling, you must look to read more, then you will understand more.

    Historical advertisements for America featured Black women. White men left family and home to have sex with Black women. The guy who told you that nonsense doesn’t seem to realize that Black people were forced emigrants; yet it’s Whites who emigrated for ‘exotic’ women.

    What’s more, when you understand slavery, interracial rape was rampant and Black women were the usual victims. Black men were rarely the perpetrators.

    Do you write “The truth hurts?” to insult people? shingling, first learn the truth, then you will learn that the truth never hurts.

    HTP

  35. Thanks!

    I have a friend just like that. In H.S. he said he didn’t want a dark-skinned Sister; now he’s on about how ugly weaves are. But that’s Mis-Education. Few of us are unaffected.

    I always loved me some Sisters. But Mis-Education affected me in other ways.

  36. ALCHEMIST on said:

    @blackmystory

    you said,
    ” The males have been HEARING it for the longest while because that is the narrative, but the females not only engage in it, but his storically have benefited from it MORE than the males.”

    Please explain the benefits of the multigenerational rape trauma that black women suffered to the black women on this thread. I’ve always know that deep down black men think the black women conspired with white men and used sex strategically. When you are finished accusing our foremothers of being whores why don’t you just go piss on their graves to further make your point.

    @shingling on

    Most black/white biracials have white mothers that they are very loyal to. White men have used their phalluses all over the globe to create biracial buffer classes to facilitate practicing white supremacy.

  37. “I am in the long process of healing and it’s hard. Real hard.” – diaryofanegress

    Truth of the matter is, it’s hard for all of us, and especially those who consciously challenge this way of thinking. But one of the best things about this blogs is that we are discussing many of the problems that have affected our lives in one way or another, whether personally and collectively. It’s like therapy. Before I can be critical of choices made by the likes of Mr. Gumbel or others, I have to be critical of the same/similar things, attitudes and conclusions I’ve been/might have been guilty of myself. “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”

    We are all victims of a system, and were born into it. That doesn’t mean we have to stay there. I would recommend to all that you monitor and maintain your mental health as much as possible. A lot of the work ahead of us, in this time and age, will require an extensive amount of mental activity, including the pre-requisite of utilizing critical thinking skills for every event in daily life. The mind is the most powerful organ we have. Its capabilities should be studied extensively. After all, we are only using 10% of its true potential. Clear thinking requires as much practice as with any habit. That’s the best defense, along with grouping ourselves with like-minded individuals for support, encouragement, morale boosting and just having some damn fun too!

    It is indeed a process that will take a strenuous effort on the individual’s part.

  38. ALCHEMIST on said:

    @ blackmystory

    Black males, white women and white men have created a sexual fetish subculture with its own terminology, clubs and tattoos. I call it the mandingo/BBC/queen of spades/breed black/cuckold micro-community. White women that fetishize black males get black queen of spades tattoos to symbolize their involvement in this subculture. A black male created mandingo swinger clubs. These clubs are all over the country and have spread to the UK. A multi-part documentary can be found at the VSB website:
    http://www.vice.com/the-vice-guide-to-sex/mandingo-episode-1-1

    I could be incorrect but I do not believe Ghetto Gaggers was created by black females. Repeated exposure to Tommy Sotomayor’s deeply disturbing brand of racialized misogyny will result in a type of brain rot.

    I am presently reading “Pieces of a Puzzle” by Reneathia Tate. The book documents how white men brain trash black females using sex. In one chapter she discusses how her own brother’s internal world collapsed due to his brain trashing by a white prostitute.

    @Shingling On

    Black males and females that are involved in bedroom integration both pay a heavy price. I recommend the book “Why black men love white women” by Rajen Persaud for more insight. Berating black males for this behavior is not helpful. Their involvement with white women is simply more visible and out in the open than black female’s involvement with white men.

  39. @truth Will you ever do a post on how to revoer from sexual/pschological abuse?

  40. @truthbetold Will you ever do a post on how to recover from sexual/pschological abuse?

  41. blackmystory on said:

    @ ALCHEMIST you said ….“I could be incorrect but I do not believe Ghetto Gaggers was created by black females. Repeated exposure to Tommy Sotomayor’s deeply disturbing brand of racialized misogyny will result in a type of brain rot.”

    You also said….

    “Please explain the benefits of the multigenerational rape trauma that black women suffered to the black women on this thread. I’ve always known that deep down black men think the black women conspired with white men and used sex strategically. When you are finished accusing our foremothers of being whores why don’t you just go piss on their graves to further make your point.”
    This seems to imply that the madness we indulge in either came out of a void or is somehow inherent in us. Neither is the reality.

    Unless you overstand the impact the Ma’afa or African Holocaust had on us and continues to have on us and subsequently Caucasian people, then your assessment is lacing. I merely countered the prevailing argument where bashing the African males is the ONLY narrative when the women ALSO engage in Jungle fever activities. The difference in presenting and acceptance is based on a norm that is viewed through White Supremacy’s tainted eyes. You miss the point on ghetto gaggers, it is not who started it; it is why are they engaging in it?

    Nobody here is defending the Mandingo clubs; all you have to do is peruse sister’s previous post on buck breaking or mine on cuckolding to see that only a few really support this. However, t to think knee-grow females don’t have their own clubs is looking at the half empty glass. Like I said, check out the knee-grow females on dating sites and their preferences.

    The bottom line is why the fuck are we doing this, engaging in behaviors that are ethnically self destructive and one of the results or explanation is where the queen is saying here.

    And for the record I like Tommy’s narrative, as a man I don’t ascribe to pussy footing around shit that is more outrageous than the language I would use to describe it. And mostly that’s people’s problem with him.

  42. shingling on said:

    I understand that you take exception to my comment, however, what I said was truth. Black men pursue nonblack women in far greater numbers than black women pursue white men. They also marry nonblack women in far greater numbers too. How often do you see black women lifting white men up in the public square as God’s “Perfect Man”; however, you see the reverse when it comes to black men.

    Black men with white women go out of their way to be seen. It really is a status symbol in their minds.

    It is what it is…

  43. shingling on said:

    We all know that during slavery white men raped black women. That is well known history. I really can’t follow your statement or understand your logic with this comment. Everything you said is true to a fact, but it is nothing new. You didn’t introduce any “new thought” regarding this subject.

    Yes.. Black women were raped by white men as slaves.. That was one of your points..

    Yes black women came over as slaves…that was your second point

    Your last point, “historical advertisements for America featured black women”? This is a strange statement. One I have not heard of before. America in its racism exalted “WHITE WOMEN” onto the world stage as the “Standard of Beauty”. Even now many white magazines rarely feature a black women on the cover and when they do she has overwelmingly WHITE FEATURES.

    But Ok….

    The point I was making still stands.. Most nonblack men are not pursuing black women the way black men are pursuing non black women. This is one reason why the number of “eligible black males” *besides the prison factor” is so low in our communities.

    Whats the first thing a ball player or a black guy who gets money goes and gets? A EURASIAN WOMAN.

  44. ALCHEMIST on said:

    @Anyone the Values Black Females and @Myblackstory

    Tommy’s narrative places black female pathology, real and imagined, as the locus of all that ails black people. Racism/white supremacy and the post traumatic slavery syndrome it created never enter his narrative. The black men that embrace his telling of our woes have concluded that black females are crazy, treasonous and emasculating she-males. This is why they have no problem implying that our foremothers were whores. The wounds and psychic damage inflicted by white supremacist are only compounded by a steady stream of foul labels poured over the heads of black females by black males:

    B*tch, whore, chicken head, skeezer, ankles, ratchet, ghetto, hood rat, etc

    Each slur is a stinging slap to the face meant to hurt. The message many black females take away from this verbal assault is that black men are not nor do they wish to be a safe harbor for black women and children. Tommy’s followers have clearly demonstrated their contempt for the wombs that birthed them. His berating of black females will not replace the system of white supremacy with justice. It seems to merely provide a soothing lotion for black males deep in the dark well of PTSS. For me, the most disturbing part of all this is the belief of many black males that black females should quietly accept such emotional abuse in the name of racial fidelity.
    On Cree 7’s blog I posted the poem “The Strong Black Women is Dead” by Laini Mataka (The correct title is “Being a Strong Black Woman Can Getchu Killed”). She does a much better job of explaining the problem.

    BEING A STRONG BLACK WOMAN CAN GETCHU KILLED by Laini Mataka

    The strong black woman is dead
    The strong black woman is dead…on August 15, 1999 at 11:15 p.m. while struggling with the reality of being a human instead of a myth, the strong black woman passed away.

    Medical sources say she died of natural causes, but those who knew her know she died from being silent when she should have been screaming, smiling when she should have been raging, from being sick and not wanting anyone to know because her pain might inconvenience them.

    She died from an overdose of other people clinging to her when she didn’t have enough energy for herself. She died from loving men who didn’t love themselves, and only offer her a crippled reflection. She died from raising children alone and for not being able to do a complete job. She died from the lies her grandmother told her mother, and her mother told her about life, men and racism.

    She died from being sexually abused as a child and having to take that truth everywhere she went, everyday of her life, exchanging the humiliation for guilt and back again.

    She died from being battered by someone who claimed to love her. And she allowed the battering to go on, to show she loved him too.

    She died from asphyxiation, coughing up blood from secrets she kept trying to burn away instead of allowing herself the kind of nervous breakdown she was entitled to, but only white girls could afford.

    She died from being responsible, because she was the last rung on the ladder and there was no one under her she could dump on. The strong black woman is dead.

    She died from the multiple births of her children she never really wanted, but was forced to have by the strangling morality of those around her. She died from being a mother at 15, a grandmother at 30 and an ancestor at 45.

    She died from being dragged down and sat upon by un-evolved women posing as sisters. She died from pretending the life she was living was a Kodak moment instead of a 20th century, post slavery nightmare!

    She died from tolerating Mr. pitiful just to have a man around the house. She died from lack of orgasms because she never learned what made her body happy and no one took the time to teach her, and sometimes when she found arms that were tender, she died because they belonged to the same gender.

    She died from sacrificing herself for everybody and everything when what she really wanted to do was be a singer, a dancer, or some magnificent other.

    She died from lies of omission because she didn’t want to bring the black man down, she died from race memories of being snatched and raped, snatched and sold and snatched and bred, snatched and whipped and snatched and worked to death.

    She died from tributes from her counterparts who should have been matching her efforts instead of showering her with dead words and empty songs, she died from myths that would not allow her to show weakness without being chastised by the lazy and the hazy.

    She died from hiding her real feelings until they became hard and bitter enough to invade her womb and breast like angry tumors. She died from always lifting something from heavy boxes to refrigerators.

    The strong black woman is dead.

    She died from the punishments received from being honest about life, racism and men. She died from being called a bit-h for being verbal, a dyke for being assertive and a ***** for picking her own lovers. She died from never being enough of what men wanted, or being too much for the men she wanted.

    She died from being too black and died again for not being black enough. She died from castration every time somebody thought of her as only a woman, or less than a man.

    She died from being mis-informed about her mind, her body and the extent of her royal capabilities.

    She died from knees pressed to close together because respect was never part of the foreplay that was being shoved at her.

    She died from loneliness in birthing rooms and loneliness in abortion centers, she died of shock in courtrooms where she sat, alone, watching her children being legally lynched.

    She died in bathrooms with her veins busting open with self-hatred and neglect. She died in her mind, fighting life, racism, and men while her body was carted away and stashed in a human warehouse for the spiritually mutilated, and sometimes when she refused to die, when she just refused to give in, she was killed by the lethal images of blonde hair, blue eyes and flat butts, rejected by the O.J.’s, the Quincy’s and the Poitiers.

    Sometimes, she was stomped to death by racism and sexism, executed by hi-tech ignorance while she carried the family in her belly, the community on her head, and the race on her back!

    Well, the Strong, Silent, Sh–t-takin blk woman is officially DEAD. Will the real queens,
    please RISE!”

  45. @ Emile

    Well said.

  46. @ Cara

    Yes. I can work on that in the future.

  47. tymetravelife on said:

    “And for the record I like Tommy’s narrative, as a man I don’t ascribe to pussy footing around shit that is more outrageous than the language I would use to describe it. And mostly that’s people’s problem with him.”

    Conscious, reasonable people have a problem with Sotomayer because he is unintelligent, unintelligible, bitter, angry & has tunnel vision. And very likely violent–physically & otherwise–towards the girls & women in his life. SIMPLE AS THAT.

    I wouldn’t have him in my circle & would watch him very closely with female children.

  48. Excellent poem.

    Though we need to realize that taking on a female narrative and a male narrative are part of the problem. We’re a family. When we divide the disputes along boundaries made by Europeans, we weaken ourselves.

    And some may wonder–why are we saying the European created those boundaries? we were “men” and “women” before contact with Europeans.

    That’s only partially correct. In our history, the sexes appeared in pairs. For instance, review Ancient Egypt’s (Africa’s) deities: Every female has a male counterpart and vise-versa.

    Even the same, every Queen has a King. Our dialogue today doesn’t realize that. As wonderful as this poem is, it speaks to “Queens” without Kings. That’s senseless.

    We need to realize that there’s no sexual divide and that any insult given a woman is just as much given a man. From there we need to end that conversation.

    From what I see, shingling has ignorant frustrations against Black men and blackmystory took on her Europeanized narrative to mistakenly assault Black women. You then spoke against Black men speaking against Black women and thus a problem created itself from our usage of our Miseducation.

    Instead, we should defuse the situation. blackmystory clearly speaks out of love for the Black woman but, due the Europeanized narrative, expressed himself hatefully. Correct him on the narrative and let’s no longer divide ourselves.

    I am with you. Tommy is a pitiful example of a Europeanized African. However, we must not look at him as a “Black Man” but as a victim of Mis-Education. Only then can we understand what really is the problem.

    HTP

  49. Sister,

    The Elders would tell us “Don’t believe the hype.”

    You’re looking at the manufactured image rather than the reality. Research “Queen Califia” or “Hottentot Venus.” The former is an example of White men coming to unexplored America to have sex with Black women in California (the state is named after that Black Queen.) The latter is an example of hundreds of White men raping a Black woman, putting her in a Museum, and after her death keeping her vagina on display, only recently returning her remains to Africa.

    You wrote that Black men were the only one’s interested in sexual relations with other women. In actuality, Black men are the least interested. The manufactured image would tell you otherwise, but there’s so much reality you do not know that you would be wrong to presume you are ‘learned.’

    Someone else already said it. The first thing White men would do after conquest is rape the conquered. You know this. You should not speak bad of your Brothers, but you should also know that they are the very Best of Men; just as you are of the Best Women.

    HTP

  50. Jay in the Black Dimension on said:

    I love this topic. When I get my thoughts together, I’ll make a comment. But in the mean time here’s another topic for you. I was wondering if you ever saw this and what you thought about it. Maybe you could write about it another time.

    http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/world/2009/10/30/rugman.kenya.sex.tourism.itn

  51. @ Jay

    This is been going on since the creature classified as European laid eyes on us. His/Her desire to rape the brown skinned Original is apart of their innate sickness.

    Unfortunately, they create situations where we are vulnerable to them and have very little resistance. But no fear…Jah will return and our Spiritual shift is taking place. They know this buy the way, that’s why the tempo to destroy us is now at a harried pace.

  52. I get enraged and want to throw up when I see and hear sad stories like this. Although many of the world’s victims are poor, I still say there are ways around prostitution. The young Kenyan sister stated the truth: her body is the temple of The Creator. That’s violation #1. These criminals shouldn’t be sent back to their native country, but killed on the spot at the time of incident, as this will send a clear message to the other perpetrators/criminals/pedophiles. And we wonder why are children are growing up with self-esteem issues across the globe? Well, how can you expect a “child” to comprehend or reason the most horrible things happening to them at such an innocent age? The Kenyans who sell their children to these perverts should be also be eliminated, to pre-empt any others from resorting to this weakness. Your mentioning of the spiritual element behind these events are something that I always think about. There “has” to be a Higher Power that will eventually reveal the true justice we are seeking, or may be beyond our current capabilities.

  53. Stockholm Syndrome
    I was looking into this myself a few months ago for the very same reasons.
    Great minds think alike they? say.
    This post has helped me understand you and myself far more.
    The problem with isolation is it can lead to paranoia – instead of mistrusting and doubting your enemies – you mistrust and doubt everyone – your friends ,allies even yourself.

  54. Reblogged this on Mbeti's Blog and commented:
    So good stuff for African Americans and all other Oppressed and captive people.

  55. @ALCHEMIST
    Wow that was/is deep and beautiful
    I’m going to do a blog post just of that poem
    @Onitaset
    As usual you keep it wholistic and complete with utter nobility.
    Is it safe to say I am not complete or whole without a/my Mate?
    As my heart continually yearns for and what seems to be my foes primary concern.

  56. @terribleboss

    The racial makeup of the planet will reflect the greatness of our race. Women determine the racial dynamics of the planet. Black is what they want, black is what it will be…Bottomline! “I’m having a black baby…What whitewomen say to other whitewomen.” It’s amazing how white females have flipped the script on this issue, rarely will you hear them say biracial in relation to their caramel babies…Pseudo-Blackness has caused them to admit the truth…their babies are black!

    Ty

  57. blackmystory on said:

    @tymetravelife…”Conscious, reasonable people have a problem with Sotomayer because he is unintelligent, unintelligible, bitter, angry & has tunnel vision. And very likely violent–physically & otherwise–towards the girls & women in his life. SIMPLE AS THAT.”

    Of course you have empirical evidence of this right? You edumacation and insight into this man allows you to make specific statement on this, right?
    —————————————-
    “I wouldn’t have him in my circle & would watch him very closely with female children.”

    This is how far your response goes? A logical response bolsters your reply over an emotional and puzzling response. smh!

  58. blackmystory on said:

    @Onetaset…”Instead, we should defuse the situation. blackmystory clearly speaks out of love for the Black woman but, —-due the Europeanized narrative,—- expressed himself hatefully. Correct him on the narrative and let’s no longer divide ourselves.”

    ….mmm! Europeanized narrative….? express myself hatefully?

    “….I am with you. Tommy is a pitiful example of a Europeanized African. However, we must not look at him as a “Black Man” but as a victim of Mis-Education. Only then can we understand what really is the problem….”

    I will respect sisters blog and not go into this back and forth, extensively, with you. Not only because your response comes from out of left field, but because it detracts from the sensible topic she raises. I had to wait for a period of time to respond to you and tymetravelife’s puzzling response, but it’s all good. What I suggest is you come on my blog and see who I am and what I am about. If then you feel that I have fallen short of your standards then we can take it from there. But don’t sully this post with something like this, leave that to the beast that sent sister the letter above.

  59. blackmystory, know that I have love for you and our whole race; and I understand you to be an upstanding Brother.

    I mean no insult in speaking of a hateful narrative. I’m only reminding us that a Europeanized narrative is necessarily a hateful narrative. It’s nothing with you. The Europeanized narrative was the use of a gendered argument. When you write out the Black woman as separate from the Black man you’re using a European’s narrative. Not many of us realize this.

    It will please you to remember this lecture by Naim Akbar. He explains it in the first three minutes.

    If, Brother, I write something that makes you doubt my love for you or our race, then demand that I apologize. I know you are an excellent Brother. Please do not think otherwise.

    HTP

  60. Brother, perhaps Naim’s lecture below will benefit you.

    But certainly, a man is the complement of a woman and a woman a complement of a man, so individually a man or a woman is incomplete.

    As far as relationship is concerned, I had written out an advice piece entitled “Relationship Advice for the Civil African” there teaching the requirements for relationships.

    As Sister TruthBeTold was loving enough to retell your story, I think that you should check it out and become inspired.

    HTP

  61. blackmystory on said:

    Peace African, I embrace you as my brother and recognize you as my companion in truth…it’s all love!

  62. blackmystory on said:

    All you have to do is read some magazine, get on youtube, check out some sites and see where knee-grow females lift up Caucasian males and males of other ethnic groups as more desirable than their own. However, if this is what you believe then this is what you believe, until you believe otherwise, then we will not agree.

  63. It's Me! on said:

    Everyone Negress thinks I work for the CIA and has blocked my comments…All is well.. No sweat. Check out my blog to read my story.. “Terribleboss” at wordpress.com

  64. It's Me! on said:

    Negress… You’ve let the white man divide you from those who only wish you well and enjoy reading your blog.

    Sigh…

    We will FOREVER be divided unless we GET OUR SHIT TOGETHER.

    Peace Negress..

    Learn your friends from your foes.. In your confusion Negress you have the two CONFUSED.

  65. Boss/ its me

    In my insanity, I’ve become more sane than I’ve ever been. I didn’t block you. you are visible. Perhaps there’s something on your mind, no?

  66. @shingling

    I understand your point, but, we as blackmen don’t need non-black women to build a new black dynasty in the Americas, Europe, Asia, etc. Yes, we know that other women are sexually attracted, that’s a given. The black female is the Original Woman, she provides all that we need and want to live on this planet…Period! If you’ve read some of my other posts, i fluctuate on this issue. Inter-racial sex never bothered me, but i didn’t support marriage. Better to get the bug out of our stomach, rather than regret it down the road. The lesser evil so to speak. Thanks in large part to technology(The Net), women all over the globe can view blackmen engaging in sex with women of all races. Naturally, they want to validate the sexual myths about brothas for themselves. Women have good taste, so, them liking blackmen is not a shock to sane people. The Swirl would have happened organically hundreds or thousands of years ago on its own if not for slavery and colonialism. In essence, brothas are making up for lost time. We want to remake the planet in our own image, and i support that more or less. My beef with other blackmen has always centered around the notion of black males hating their reflection. Why should we hate blackwomen, just to get in the panties of women from Greece, Italy, Japan, Thailand, Mexico, etc? It shows a lack of sexual control and discipline. If we can’t make love to women of another tribe without tossing sistas under the bus, we don’t deserve the crown that we’ve been given as african men. Black Love vs. The Swirl…can black males navigate and master both? Inter-racial is a priviledge brothas, not a right. Other women are not obligated to sleep with us, let’s stay mindful of this. A lot of blackmen don’t have genuine respect for the priviledge that other women provide them, which is a problem. As i’ve told many a non-black female, any blackman that hates blackwomen hates you as well…Real Talk! The duality of black male sexuality is what i and others are trying to understand, it’s an ongoing process Shingling.

    Ty

  67. @blackmystory

    Blackwomen engage in the same deviant sexual behavior as blackmen. They do a better job of hiding their dirt, that’s the difference. Blackwomen are f**king men of other races in like fashion. Ebony sexuality cuts both ways. Until recently, a lot of blackwomen have avoided sleeping with other men out of loyalty to the race and blackmen, times change. If we can do it, Why not them? A lot of sistas got tired of the bs, being truthful about it. The constant “in your face” mindset of certain blackmen forced sistas to re-evaluate how they interact with other men sexually. A lot of us are mad because some sistas choose to behave as we have, Why? We have no one but ourselves to blame. Blackwomen know that they’re the finest women on this planet, so, they could never understand our insanity as it relates to chasing other tail. Black folk know that they can jump back and forth, sexually speaking. Blackness gives us versatility and variety…we can always come back home. As it relates to ghetto gaggers, those sistas are beyond sick. A blackwoman can spread her thighs for whomever, but, that doesn’t give her license to degrade her “Black Gold” in said fashion. When women do dumb s**t, it’s a greater evil. Sistas may not like to hear that, but, they’re held to a higher standard. Dominant vs. Submissive…black males are in a power position and black females are in a submissive position. The psychology is not the same, and never will be. Other men having sex with Nubian women is problematic, because, they don’t like blackmen. Deep down, we know that other men on this planet wish us dead, which is why black females don’t flaunt their IR relationships in the same way as blackmen do. Yes, famous sistas like Zoe Saldana, Kerry Washington, Diana Ross, and others are in the club. However, blackwomen don’t push the issue. The black female/non-black male dynamic came first, not the other way around.

    Ty

  68. larissa on said:

    ”In my insanity, I’ve become more sane than I’ve ever been.”
    What does this mean?

  69. Larissa

    It means that I can see the lies more clearly now without false pretenses.

  70. larissa on said:

    I often wonder whether I am crazy. People say I amuse them. They laugh at me. They say I’m a strange girl. I have these songs that I can’t get out of my head. I ask people questions but when they say ”why do you ask”, I can’t anwser. My family has suggested I seek help. I guess my coping mechanism is literally becoming insane, maybe because not getting those songs out of my head would mean facing silence, which would mean facing the truth, and that is too painful. I understand blaming white supremacy, but at where do you draw the line and actually accept responsibility for your own failings, which have nothing to do with white supremacy?

  71. All blacks in the system are reacting to their environment. That’s the key word: react.

    Whites act
    Blacks REACT.

    This isn’t about blame but ownership that we all have issues in this prison created by whites.

  72. “but at where do you draw the line and actually accept responsibility for your own failings, which have nothing to do with white supremacy?”

    And excellent question
    where do you draw the line?
    what level do you (whoever you are) accept responsibility for your own failings?
    “nothing to do with white supremacy”

    really – how can let’s say a black male or female born in America (a country founded on genocide and slavery ,to which your predecessors are involuntary immigrants ) have any aspect of your life ,ANY that has “nothing to do with white supremacy” ?

    seems ALLl pai mei strokes are correlated …

  73. THE ALCHEMIST on said:

    @larissa,

    I think it would help if you defined what you mean by “white supremacy”.

  74. larissa on said:

    @Mbeti that was helpful, and I guess it also applies to non American blacks. I also agree with truthbetold’s explanation. I am scared of blaming everything on white supremacy because then it is easier to give up and excuse my flaws, after all, I am a victim of this system. That is my mindset. There are others who don’t think this way, but instead view their victim status as an incentive to keep fighting.
    @The Alchemist, the shortest explanation I can give is: a system in which the whiter you look, the more privilege you have.

  75. @ALCHEMIST

    Blackmen have been asexualized and homosexualized. The filth that we witness in so-called urban culture is born out of woman-hating and sista-hating black males and non-black males who are on the same team. All men seek to control and exploit black womanhood, blackmen included. Blackwomen are the issue, not whitewomen, asian women, indian women, etc. He who controls black female sexuality, is the “Top Dog” more or less. Other men want us to hate our sistas for their benefit. Blackmen should never fall into the trap of thinking it cute that other men are sweet on blackwomen…they’re snakes in the grass. They view sistas as sex objects, not as full human beings. Blackwomen are not for sale…Period!

    Tyrone

  76. @Negress

    Sadly, a lot of young sistas have fallen into the trap of thinking that tossing themselves into the arms of whitemen and others is cool. I was waiting for the train to come the other day, some young brothas were conversing about whatever, and out of nowhere a young sista starts kissing a white spanish boy in front of them. Obviously, she wanted to make them jealous. I’ve witnessed this behavior 3 or 4 other times this year. It makes me think of Jackie Christie and Laura Govan of Basketball Wives LA. Last season, they got caught up in the “White is Right” nonsense that was pushed by certain groups of blackwomen via reality-tv and social media. Blackwomen are equally jacked-up in the head as blackmen are. Both sides are wrong, not just blackmen.

    Ty

  77. Tyrone

    We are all sick. Hence my Stockholm Syndrome post. I saw white women kiss up on black men in front of me all the time for the exact same reasons.

  78. @The Alchemist, the shortest explanation I can give is: a system in which the whiter you look, the more privilege you have.

    I like the more scientifically accurate descriptions but simplicity has its virtue.

    Thee problem is even if your honest about yourself – albinic/white people don’t care ,lie about your faults and your more likely to succeed with them – because their first last and only concern is how white – how little melanin you appear to have and how much of service you are to those with the lease amount of melanin – those who are whitest.
    All else is irrelevant to them.

    I know I have flaws but they are irrelevant to albinic/white people.
    I used to wonder why no matter what shape I was in albinic/white females would continue to show interest ,where as most black women wouldn’t waste their time.

    Even albinic/white females with a black male would still show interest.

    Then I realized as its never about sex or love and always about dominion.

    And our/my biggest flaw – being human,having feelings, caring about something other than our dominion over others.

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  81. Boom!! Sis, you are dangerous. The way you lay it out and make it easily understandable is a gift. But yeah it is so true…we HAVE to be insane to deal with insane ass whites & if we happen to escape the nuthouse and life-long programming & function fairly well–they will pursue til THEY DRIVE US insane or try to kill our spirit in the process. The thought of masses of thinking, rational black people is what keeps those in illusory power up at night. There is no way this system which is antithetical to truth, justice and life could exist unless we were all the walking dead. It’s no wonder white culture is so full of references to zombies and vampires. They subconsciously know what they are and what they have produced.

  82. nmaat

    They nearly killed me once. So I know this all too well.

  83. I feel for you b/c we live in a world where insane is the ‘norm’. There are black people who will invariably be thought of and labeled as ‘insane’ b/c we have drank the proverbial kool-aid but reacted as if we’d been given truth serum. There is something that a lot of us don’t talk about or acknowledge: technological advances that exist that go beyond our comprehension & understanding. Yes, mental illness exists but I don’t think on the scale that we see it portrayed today. There is something called microwave auditory effect & psychotronics that you may want to explore. Could be your issue, maybe not, but pls don’t automatically assume you are clinically insane. In the end, imo, it ALL has something to do with white supremacy, either directly or indirectly.

  84. larissa on said:

    Mbeti said: And our/my biggest flaw – being human,having feelings, caring about something other than our dominion over others.
    That seems to be a very African trait. Even when people cause me indescribable pain, I feel intense rage but also try to think of ways to forgive or see their good side.

  85. Oh that’s their m.o. Either kill your spirit or psyche so that you are useless to yourself and our people or to literally kill you dead. But I see it as a badge of honor. They know your worth. Believe me, most don’t have the courage or integrity to fight or move in truth. And they certainly DON’T so I see it as confirmation of your strength and worth. For me, I am not afraid to die and certainly not afraid to stand up to people who are afraid of EVERYTHING, even WITH unbridled & pretty much unchallenged power–yet they STILL hide in the shadows & are primarily motivated by fear. How can anybody remotely sane fear or be intimidated by that?

  86. I witnessed this while looking out my window one day. There was a lot of chatter in front of my yard; I went to take a look. There was a brother and sister– half-white young children surrounded by two Black female adults ( one of the Black females had her young female child with her also, she was maybe 9-10yrs old). I listened….to my amazement, the two Black adults were admiring these two half-white children’s hair!! With statements such as , ” ooh, they got good hair”, ” they don’t have that n–a hair”,….what was most appalling that I noticed? The little Black female’s look on her face…. a look of sadness as her mother “oohed”over these half-white children’s hair. I was embarrassed and sad for the child….I know she is now programmed to reject and hate who she is….I wanted to say something, but said nothing. I knew I’d be perceived as a “nut” because many Blacks are so comatose that I don’t bother, especially if I recognize the depth of their coma….Those comatose are enjoying the slumber. Those asleep can be reached….slowly, but it’s possible with them. These two were indeed comatose. When I see the little girl, I always make the effort to uplift her though… with a kind word and words of self-love and acceptance. I know she’s not hearing such words at home.

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