Why So Few Black Women Marry White Men
*deep breath*
This will be a hard post, so being the woman that I am, I’m going to dive in with both feet.
Why are so few black women marrying white men? Is it because black women find white men unattractive? No. I don’t think so. In fact, to be brutally honest, I find this man sexy as hell:
But…as sexy as Mr. Bale is, if he was available and wanted me and was a “regular guy”, I would never marry him. Why? Fear. Simple fear.
“But Truthbetold, what fear are you talking about?”
My Supposition:
1. In every black woman, whether or not she admits it or is AWARE of it, lies a deep seated fear that one day, the white man that she marries, the father of her children, the man that she built her life with, the man that celebrated her birthday, job promotion and summer home purchase, the man that held her close when she cried, the man that made sweet passionate love to her, will suddenly one day, during a heated fight, which all couples have, open his mouth and call her a nigger. And it will destroy her.
2. Black women, being the subject of the master’s rape fetish, will equate intimacy with a white man to the master’s subjugation.
3. They are not attracted to them emotionally or spiritually.
4. They fear repercussions of the supremacist system.
5. They fear repercussions and ridicule of the white man’s family and friends and their family and friends.
6. They feel they cannot “compete” with white women.
7. They genuinely love their black man and can’t see themselves with a white man.
8. They feel white men are “emotionally empty.”
9. They think white men will not desire them as “wife” material.
10. They are simply not interested.
*exhales*
This post hurt. A lot. It was hard to write and the comments will be brutal but…in my goal to understand and conquer white supremacy, I will never stop exploring the sickness of it.
Any thoughts?
Birch Tar Antiseptic Soap
Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder
@larissa
Appreciating beauty in someone of another race is natural. All of us have eyes. Black people are not the only tribe on the planet. I find other women attractive, but, that doesn’t lessen my desire for blackwomen. The same holds true for blackwomen.
GoTeam
Also, there´s the kids. Worrying about their future, their confusion of their identity etc… Also not wanting to create more mulattoes that only cause even more division when they are elevated above darker blacks.
@larissa
Black men and women should always strive to bring forth natural black children. As it relates to those who are half-black. Are they 90/10, 80/20, 70/30, and so forth. Mulattos are black people with foreign blood in them. The 50/50 scenario doesn’t make sense to me.
I can´t see Cinammondiva´s recent comments. It´s so frustrating. Is it just me?
Looks like the powers that be are at it again. Let them continue their bs, we won´t give up so easily.
@cinnamondiva, i think someone is making sure that i am unable to see your comments on this post. could you please repost them on open discussion 9? thank you! they must be pretty interesting if I am being stopped from being able to read them.
You are not alone. I cannot read them, either.
Cinammondiva, I see that you posted further comments. I don´t know about Mickey, but I still can´t read them. At the risk of sounding annoyingly persistent, could you perhaps try reposting them under a different post?
Ok now I can´t read ANY of the recent comments on this post, only mine.
did u click on older comments?
yes I clicked but I still I can´t see anything.
refresh?if that don’t work maybe try a differnet browser like google chrome.
To ALL:
Please hit Older Comments. This thread has gotten very long so wordpress divided it into 2 pages.
ANybody else think quentin tarantino is one unstable m@therf@ker.He seem like he gonna go off the deep end like charlie sheen maybe even worse.QT comes to mind of the person who would do number 1. marry a black woman so he can say the n word even more.
I can’t stand his alien/terminator lookin’ ass. I wanna see him do a movie featuring his kith & kin (italians) and have the characters say WOP 10,000 times. Then I’ll believe his ass ain’t on some bullshat. lol..
i’ll take a numer 1,2,3,7,&10.thank you
Bradley Cooper is sort of cute.
A black man is the only way to go for me. But some white men are attractive they have to be exceptional for me to give them a second glance.
@Cinnamondiva: I really enjoy your commentary.
Great post and I commend you for your honesty. I find all the reasons you listed valid and probably represent the types of fears that (most) BW secretly have regarding white males.
I think it’s important that under the conditions of WAR — that black people–look beyond the physical or sexual or financial appeal of a potential white mate and consider the ramifications of sleeping with our collective enemies.
I’m not saying every white person is your personal enemy BUT there is a good reason why the white supremacy system is pushing (shoving) sex with white people down our throats
while portraying black male/black female relationships as either defective or nonexistent — in short UNDESIRABLE.
DIVIDE THEN CONQUER
All we have to do is look at the history of non-white people who engaged on a massive level sex (or rape) with whites to see our own fate, for example, the Australia Aboriginals and Native Americans — who have lost their land, resources, and are now less than 10 PERCENT of their former populations prior to European colonization.
All non-whites who place whites above their own risk a total destruction of their culture, power, self-respect and eventually total enslavement —
or to the concentrations in Nazi Germany
because as Dr. Welsing once said ((and I paraphrase), “The Jews (non-whites) had the highest level of interracial marriages just before they were marched into the camps.”
Life is NOT just about “feeling good” for a minute
it’s about BEING GOOD for generations to come
Miss Pam
Excellent reply.
I, on the other hand, believe that ALL whites are indeed our enemies and not to be trusted.
EVER.
His-story never lies.
I alos think that in general white men are not attractive and way too arogant and insecure. He can’t measure up to a black man.
There’s also knowing that he will never ever understand what it means to be black, therefore the connection can never be the same as with a black man. He will never know what it means to have to think about your colour, and how it will affect you, every day.
My wife is black and we have been married for almost eight years. We live in Kalispell, Montana and have two great kids. When we lived in the South the only time we had any trouble was from blacks who called my wife Kizzy a traitor and a cracker lover. Here in Montana we get looks at times but nothing like we had before, and even if we did we could care less. We love each other and have a wonderful family. I have a couple of videos of us on YouTube feel free and take a look.